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Essential Premarital Counseling Questions for Couples: Key Premarital Discussion Points
Embarking on the journey toward marriage is exciting, but it also comes with its fair share of questions and uncertainties. Before saying "I do," it’s crucial to have open, honest conversations that lay a strong foundation for your future together. That’s where premarital counseling steps in. It’s not just about identifying potential issues but about building a deeper understanding and connection. Today, I want to share some key premarital discussion points that every couple

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
1 day ago4 min read


The Cruel Irony of Being Given a Basket to Carry Water
Imagine being handed a basket when you need to carry water. The task seems simple, but the tool makes it impossible. This image captures a deep truth about unfair challenges and impossible expectations. Being given a basket to carry water is more than a frustrating experience—it is a symbol of cruelty disguised as help. A basket held over water, unable to hold it The Meaning Behind the Basket and Water Water is essential for life. Carrying water often represents a basic, nece

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
3 days ago2 min read


Lessons in Wisdom from the University of Hard Knocks vs the Journey of a Dropout
Life teaches us in many ways, often outside the walls of formal education. Some gain wisdom through experience, facing challenges head-on in what is often called the "university of hard knocks." Others take a different path, leaving traditional education behind as dropouts, yet still finding valuable lessons along the way. This post explores the distinct yet overlapping lessons learned from these two journeys, offering insights into how wisdom grows beyond textbooks and class

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
3 days ago3 min read


Learning from the Duck Lifestyle: Psychological Lessons We Can't Ignore
The image of a duck gliding smoothly across a pond often brings a sense of calm and simplicity. Yet, beneath the water’s surface, its legs paddle furiously to keep moving forward. This contrast between serene appearance and hidden effort offers a powerful metaphor for human psychology. Should we learn from the duck lifestyle or avoid it? Exploring this question reveals important lessons about emotional regulation, resilience, and authenticity. A duck gliding peacefully on wat

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
3 days ago3 min read


Understanding Family Dynamics Through the Eagle Family: A Psychological Perspective
Family life can be complex, filled with challenges and growth opportunities. Observing nature often reveals surprising lessons about relationships and roles within a family. The eagle family, known for its strength, care, and resilience, offers valuable insights into family dynamics from a psychological perspective. This post explores how the behaviors and interactions of eagles can help us understand and improve our own family life. An eagle attentively watching from a high

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
3 days ago3 min read


Comparing Online Therapy Platforms: Why Hillord Health Stands Out
<p>Choosing an online therapy platform can feel surprisingly difficult. Many services promise convenience, flexibility, and emotional support, yet the real

Mervin Ellis, MS, LMFT, AAMFT,
5 days ago4 min read
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